Blindsides

A bruised reed He will not break, and a smoldering wick He will not snuff out. Matthew 12:20 NIV

Blindside. A hard word for a hard and crushing situation.  What do we do when it happens? We can’t avoid them, they come for all of us at several points in our lives. Job loss, loss of health, imprisonment of someone we love, and the death of someone close to us. I’ve lived through and survived them all. Not only did I survive, I grew. I am stronger now than I have ever been, but it’s only due to and through the Lord.

Last night was another blindside. We got the call that my brother-in-law died. We loved him dearly and I admit it is crushing. He was a kind man and we will greatly miss him.

At some point, we all die. Your death will be someone’s blindside. Same with mine – one day my kids will get that call. We can hide behind pills, booze, and yarn or we can accept that this is an opportunity to grow in our relationship with the Lord. The choice is one only we can make. Trust Him or wallow in grief, I choose to trust in His kindness and mercy.

I can’t  control what happens in life but I can control if I trust the Lord with the outcome. Today, I am the bruised reed and I know the pain isn’t here to destroy me. His goal is never to crush us, it’s to bring us closer to Him. I love what Psalm 91:1 says, “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.”

Shalom, my friends.

 

 

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